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DIY No- sew Halloween Costume – Owelette Cape

Halloween excitement is running high in our house since the beginning of October. With new decorations appearing on a daily basis in the neighborhood even Baby Boy is noticing and saying “Mumma, I want Holloween”.

The kids are crazy for PJ Masks show these days and want to dress up as Owelette and Cat boy this year. I have been buying costumes for them so far but this year I couldn’t find a decent Owelette costume anywhere and Cat boy costume is mainly a jumpsuit which would have been a disaster for newly potty trained baby boy. So I just decided to get them capes and masks with red/blue clothes underneath. 

2 days ago my husband’s cousin shared pictures of her children in Halloween costumes. Her daughter is almost the same age as mine and she was wearing a fancy Owelette cape. I immediately texted her asking where she got it from and she told me she made it herself! My Sil is super good with crafts and the fact that she managed to make the cape with 3 kids in the house makes her even more awesome. When I told her I want to make one too she gave me detailed directions and shared helpful tips. So this blog post is dedicated to her. I am only the messenger ūüôā

It looks elaborate but can be finished in less than 3 hours after you have arranged for the materials. I made it when my daughter was at school. She was thrilled to see her cape and couldn’t stop flaunting it! 

Things you will need:

  • 1/2 yard Red felt fabric (Available at all craft stores and even Walmart but Walmart may be out of stock and may not have magenta for the feathers)
  • 1/2 yard Magenta felt fabric
  • Red ribbon to make the tie
  • 2 hair ties or bangles for the arm bands
  • Red thread and needle
  • Fabric glue/ Hot glue gun
  • Measuring tape and pencil 

I wanted to use Flannel fabric but Felt gives the cape a little stiffness. Felt is also easier to work with and can be washed in delicate cycle with little detergent and cold water.

What you need to do:

  • Fold the red fabric in half so the wings are symmetrical when you cut them and the placement of Magenta feathers can be done symmetrically as well. 
  • Measure fingertip to fingertip length for your child and add a couple of inches to it for the wing span. I made 36 inches across and about 30 inches long for my 5.5 year old.
  • Refer to the picture below and roughly draw the cape outline with a pencil. For the measurements I used, each feather was about 7 inches at the widest spot. Draw a dip for the neck. Don’t cut anything yet. 
  • To make a more symmetrical wing pattern don’t cut the red base in the beginning. After you have drawn the outline on Red, fold the Magenta fabric once and draw petal like shapes for making feathers.
  • Draw the middle 3 feathers first and since the fabric is folded once, on cutting you’ll get 3 pairs of petals. Cut a thin uppermost feather and the middle bottom feather at the end. Fill the gaps by making smaller feathers.
  • Keep the pairs together and arrange them on the folded red wing, and when you are satisfied with the placement of Magenta feathers cut the red wing like this by keeping a margin of 0.5-1 cm. 
  • Now carefully spread open the red wing, try not to move the Magenta feathers. If you see carefully you’ll notice that I have kept the Magenta feathers in pairs on the red wing. This is so I don’t have to remember or number the pairs. 
  • Arrange the feathers on the full wing and stick them one by one. I used a hot glue gun because I’m obsessed with it ūüėÄ but you can use a fabric glue as well. In fact if your daughter is helping you with the costume forget hot glue completely. 
  • Once all feathers are fixed, you’ll need to sew the hair ties on both ends. I didn’t have red hair ties so I used the next best thing I could find – Bangles. You can use elastic too. 
  • Finish off the cape by sewing on the ribbon on the neck, leaving enough on both ends to tie in a knot. If you don’t want to sew you can use the magic hot glue gun to stick it on. 

The cape may pull at the neck if only supported by the ribbon. To avoid this I am planning on fixing it on the shoulders with safety pins. 

My friend Garima has made a similar cape for her daughter and she plans to fix it with hooks. For this you will need 2 small sewing hooks and sew it on the cape where it’s supposed  to touch the shoulders. After checking the placement on the child’s shirt you then need to sew the eyes on. That way the cape hangs on the shirt rather than on the neck and is safer.

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    DIY Diwali Toran

    Every year I make a Diwali Bandanvar or Toran. This time I have already made a wreath (see details here) and to compliment it I wanted to make something classy yet traditional, something not too flashy but yet rich looking.

    I have been making paper marigolds since last few days but hadn’t quite figured out where to use them until today morning. The paper marigolds are absolutely beautiful crafts and look almost like the real deal. Since finding marigolds in the US can be challenging I usually make these every year to use for Diwali decoration. Here I have only stuck 2 hemispherical flowers to make a flower ball and added petals for some green color. They look great and are easy to make.

    What you need:

    • Paper napkins in yellow and orange color (Available at Walmart in party section)
    • 1/2 inch wide ribbon in yellow or orange (I used the shimmery ones from Dollar store)
    • White Fabric petals (Available at Dollar Store)¬†
    • Acrylic green color for dyeing the petals
    • A strong glue/hot glue gun¬†
    • Stapler and pins

    What to do:

    • First of all you need to get your marigolds ready. They are easy but time consuming. To make a marigold take a paper napkin (with color on both sides) and fold it twice to get a small square. The napkins are already folded twice but you need to fold them 2 more times.¬†
    • Now secure the small square by putting 2 stapler pins in the centre making a + sign.
    • Cut the square from the sides into a circle, and make small cuts throughout the peripheri.¬†
    • Now pick up the top layer of paper and crinkle it in the centre. Do it for each layer until there are only 5-6 left. Follow the picture collage to give you a better idea. I usually leave the last few layers straight. It saves precious time and doesn’t compromise on the look of the flower.

    • Dye the white flower petals in green color. The fastest way of doing it is to add some color and water in a big bowl and dump the petals inside. The petals that you get at Dollar Store are of stiff synthetic material and don’t stick to each other or crumple. Mix the contents of the bowl so the color gets on all the petals. Then spread them out on a newspaper and let them air dry. They should start drying off in 5-10 minutes only.¬†
    • Take a marigold and put some glue at its back. Stick 3 green petals one by one, arranging them in a circle. Using more glue stick one end of the ribbon along with the petals and finish by sticking the back of another marigold of the same color to get a ball like the picture below.¬†
    • Repeat the above step and make these flower balls throughout the length of your toran maintaining a distance of about 12 inches between 2 balls.¬†
    • To highlight the ball that falls in the centre of the door, stick 2 marigolds flowers closely on both sides. You don’t need to use the flower balls for this.¬†
    • Fix the toran on your doorway using small nails and a strong double tape. I needed 3 nails – 1 on each side and one at the top center.¬†

    This is the final look:

    It does go well with the wreath, don’t you agree? We love it, hope you do too.¬†

    Happy Diwali 


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    DIY – Diwali Wreath Decoration

    Living in a foreign country comes with its own pros and cons. While I do enjoy the various perks , a part of me misses family and friends I left behind. Talking on phone or video calls is great but it doesn’t really cut it some times, especially during¬†the festive season when nostalgia hits hard.

    While I can not recreate my childhood memories for my kids, I do want them to know about our major festivals and traditions. Diwali is the biggest and most special festival for us so I have started a tradition of making our own decorations. This way I can engage the kids in a constructive activity, prepare for the festival and teach them about India¬†and our culture along the way. Darling daughter loves crafting and looks forward to Diwali all year. Now that she’s older (5.5 years) she and I scroll through Pinterest and pick what we want to make, then go shopping together and craft away!¬†

    In the past years we have made Kandil and Diwali Toran/Bandanvar. You can see detailed instructions on those here. We have also made beautiful paper marigolds here.

    This year I wanted to make something different. I noticed people decorating their houses with Fall wreaths and wanted to make one for Diwali. They look rich and elegant and can be as simple or as complex you want them to be. I gathered some supplies and this is what I came up with. 

    I have kept orange as the main color to celebrate fall and added traditional motif and decorations to give it an Indian look. This took me less than 30 minutes to finish.

    Things you will need:

    • 1 Styrofoam wreath (14 inches diameter)*
    • 1 roll of Orange Burlap ribbon (5.5 inches wide)*
    • Thin red ribbon (I used 1/4 inch wide)
    • Red fabric flowers and traditional decorations**
    • Big red stones/embellishments
    • Hot glue gun/transparent tape
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    What to do:

    • Stick one end of the burlap ribbon to the wreath using hot glue gun/tape to hold it in place. Roll the ribbon tightly and cover the wreath. One roll of 15 ft was enough to cover a 14″ wreath. Secure the loose end of the ribbon discreetly using glue/tape.
    • Roll the thin red ribbon across the wreath, maintaining a gap of about 2 inches .¬†
    • Stick the decorations on the wreath in any pattern you like. If you are a beginner like me stick to symmetrical patterns.
    • At the end stick stones on both side of the fabric decorations.
    • Use a ribbon to hang the wreath on a the wall or door.¬†

    *  All decorations are easily available at Walmart or any craft store. There is a variety of wreaths and burlap available (different sizes and colors) so be mindful of the size you need before buying. and the color scheme you are going for.

    ** I used an elaborate Rakhi lumba as the traditional decoration. This may not be available at any American store. 

    Hope you love your finished wreath as much we do ours. 

    Wish you and your families a very Happy and Prosperous Diwali.


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    Make Your Own Rakhi – 2017

    If you have been following the blog for some time you would probably know that every year darling daughter and I make hand made Rakhis. The festival of Raksha bandhan holds a special significance in our close knit family and making our own Rakhis makes it sweeter for us. Staying outside India this is one more way of keeping my kids closer to our culture and traditions. 

    When VMJ was younger I would choose the kind of Rakhis we made and did majority of the work. Now that she’s a big girl of 5 she insists on choosing the design and shopping for supplies on her own. These days she is into reading and writing so alphabets were heavily on her mind while picking a rakhi pattern. She decided to make name bracelets for her brothers and picked up colorful letter beads from the craft store. Since heart is her favorite shape and she loves colors, she also picked up a box of colorful heart beads and string in bright colors. I would have preferred regular cord over the elastic one but the elastic one had more colors and glitter so was darling daughter’s obvious choice.

    The rest was easy. We threaded beads in the string – full names for the younger brothers and only initials for grown up brothers, added heart beads on both ends.

    VMJ’S eldest brother got married last winter so this year we were excited to make our first lumba rakhi for her new Bhabhi. In case you are not familiar – lumba is a special, more decorative rakhi for brother’s wife. Instead of the typical rakhi thread a lumba had a loop of string that is knotted around the bangle. For lumba we had bought special charms that dangle from the main loop. A smaller charm from the set was added to our rakhi to make it into a set for VMJ’s Bhaiya Bhabhi. This is how our rakhi and lumba set looks.

    The best part about these rakhis was that darling daughter was able to make them on her own, I did help with tying the knots and making the lumba but that was it. 

    I love how they have turned out, hope you like them as much as we do. 

    Hurry now! Get your supplies and make some pretty ones for your Bhaiyas and Bhabhis.

    Happy crafting!

    – A

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      Celebrate Rakshabandhan 2016 with Handmade Rakhis

      It’s Rakhi time again. In our family¬†Rakshabandhan is¬†a big occasion, we tie rakhis to cousins and second cousins as well. This is¬†the second time we are not able to celebrate this festival with family and the least I can do is¬†help my daughter make rakhis for all her brothers so she¬†is involved and stays in touch with the traditions.

      Every year I try to choose a design that is easy for her to make with minimal help from my side. These are the rakhis we have made in previous years. This year I chose rakhis made out of felt and stones. They look pretty and are fairly easy to make.

      Felt is an easy material to work with. It is readily available in a variety of bright colors. Is fairly inexpensive and easy to cut. The only challenge with felt is sticking it together. It doesn’t hold well with fevicol or other easy crafting glues but hot glue works like a charm on felt. In one of my trips to the craft store last year I had over-enthusiastically bought a hot glue gun*. Finally I was able to put it to good use while making these rakhis.

      What you need:

      • Felt sheets (Any 2 colors of your choice)
      • Decorative stones/buttons/glitter glue/pom-poms
      • Thin ribbon¬†
      • Hot glue gun

      The method is pretty simple.Cut circles from the felt sheets and stick them on each other. Top it with the decorative item of your choice. I have used stone but you can use anything you have available. Stick the ribbon at the back or in between the 2 rakhi layers. And Voila! Your lovely rakhis are ready.

      *Caution РPlease be very careful while using hot glue gun if its your first time using it. DO NOT give it in the hands of young children and while using yourself, ask children to keep safe distance from the gun. Follow all instructions properly. Its safe to use but the glue and tip of the gun get extremely hot. Despite being careful I got a nasty burn which was very painful for a few days and I have the mark even after a whole month. 

      Now that your beautiful rakhi is ready, spare a minute to pack it equally well. Take a small rectangular card. I used the blank note cards from market (5″ x 3.5″), you can cut your own from card stock paper. Write your Rakhi message on the card and tie the rakhi on the¬†side. Not only does it look way more presentable than putting rakhis in an envelope, it helps keeping them in good shape till they reach their destination.

      Hope you enjoy making these beauties as much as we did.

      Happy crafting!




      You might also want to read Rakhi & The Changing Paradigms.

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      DIY Holi Colors 

      The colorful Indian festival of Holi is around the corner. It is the first time we are not in India on Holi and it almost slipped my mind until my friend Nukta sent me this picture!!


      Nukta is pro-natural and pro-DIY. She told me she’s making her own Gulal for Holi and that’s when all memories came flooding.

      I loved playing Holi as a child. We used to play with wet colors – the stronger the better, packet load of dry colors was bought and handfuls were emptied on the heads of unsuspecting people, water balloons were thrown and thick paste of water color was smeared on faces. Some even played with paint and grease. And when all inventory was over there was always water to throw. The whole fun was around making people as dirty as possible and with the color that wouldn’t go easily. After a whole morning of playing I remember spending couple of hours trying to wash it off using chick pea flour, yogurt or some other kind of natural cleanser, yet having pink or green patches on the face and hands which refused to go for days!!

      Times have changed now. People are more aware about the harsh chemicals that are added in the colors to make them strong. Most prefer to play only with dry gulal which is bought herbal and dye-free from special shops. Some have even started to play with flower petals and sandalwood paste. 

      If you want to play this beautiful festival with your family without exposing them to harmful chemicals you can also make your own natural color at home instead of buying the fancy over-priced stuff that may not be very natural after all. Nukta has been kind to share her recipe with us. Here it goes:

      Gulal 1


      • Corn starch
      • Liquid food color



      Make a smooth thick paste of corn flour and water. Add few drops of food color , the quantity will depend on which shade of color you want. Mix it well, spread it on a tray for faster drying and leave for about 2 days. Once the cracks appear on the surface, put it in a zip lock bag and crush it to obtain a fine powder or pulse in a mixer grinder. The drying process can be sped up by preheating the oven, turning it off, and putting the tray in warm oven. Rose water or 1-2 drops of essential oil can be added to the corn flour paste for fragrance. 


      Gulal 2


      • Turmeric/Sandalwood powder
      • Talcum Powder/ corn starch


      Mix turmeric/sandalwood powder with talcum powder/ corn starch. You can choose to add a bit of food color and dry if you prefer a deeper color. While using turmeric and corn starch you may add a couple of drops of essential oil or rose water for fragrance. Sandalwood and talcum powder will have fragrance of their own.

      Water Color:

      Water colors for Holi can be made by using easily available kitchen ingredients. For reddish pink color you can boil beetroot in water. Use turmeric for yellow color, saffron for orange color and red cabbage for purple color. You can mix corn starch in the colored water prepared as above for making gulal if you don’t want to use food colors, but these will not be very bright.

      Wish you all a very Happy and Colorful Holi!


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      DIY Christmas Ornaments

      It is that time of the year again – the time when you hit snooze button on your phone alarm every morning, when your tea is generously flavored with ginger, when the air is cold and crisp, when everyone looks forward to sunny afternoons after a hazy morning and one wonders how fast the last few months have flown by.

      Onset of winter also brings Christmas cheer, especially if you are in the western world. Even if its not part of your culture Christmas is usually a favorite with kids – the idea of a chubby jolly fellow bringing them candy and gifts is exciting.

      I bought a small Christmas tree on VMJ’s first Christmas to expose her to this festival. When she got older we started having Christmas party for her friends and made Christmas crafts. This is what we made last year:  Learn how to make it here

      This year we are in the US and VMJ is having the time of her life with the plethora of holiday activities and  with the decorated trees and streets everythere. While thinking about Christmas gifts for her teacher it struck me that I should include a hand made card from Vaanya. The idea evolved into a hand made Christmas ornament when I realized that it will be something new and more fun.

      Attempt 1:

      We started off with making ornaments with white clay. It was easy but somehow didn’t appeal to me. Moreover curiosity got better of VMJ and she poked and played with the beads until they fell off. Idea rejected for now!!  

       Attempt 2:

      Next attempt was with ice cream sticks. We painted them, glued them together and decorated them. It was fairly easy, quick and I liked that it involved a few different skills from start to finish. We loved the end result. This is how it looks: 


      You will need:

      For Christmas Tree ornaments:

      • Ice cream sticks
      • Green Acrylic Paint & brush (I didn’t have green so we mixed blue and yellow)
      • Fevicol/ All purpose glue
      • Decorative items – Pipe cleaners, glitter glue, small beads, stickers, ribbons… let your imagination take control

      For Raindeer ornaments:

      • Ice cream sticks
      • Brown paint & brush
      • Googly eyes
      • Thin red ribbon

      For Snowflake ornaments:

      • Ice cream sticks
      • Blue and white paint & brush
      • Decorative items – Glitter glue, sparkly stones
      You will need a string or thin ribbon to attach a loop for hanging and you are done. Hang them on your tree, gift to teachers or send with the holiday card to family and friends – no matter what you do these are going to be a hit!
      Hope you and your child enjoys making them as much we did!
      Happy crafting!
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      DIY Diwali Crafts

      Diwali is around the corner and I roped in VMJ in making some Diwali crafts. She enjoyed and I got my decorations ready… win win for both! ūüôā

      If you haven’t bought or made your Diwali decorations yet, try these crafts. They are fairly easy and quick, and you can make them using stuff lying around the house.

      We made Kandils, Clay Diyas, Bandanvar and Crepe paper flowers.

      Material you will need for Kandil:

      • Cardstock paper
      • Crepe paper
      • Glitter sheets
      • Thread/ribbon
      • Glue

      Just follow the design, its fairly easy to make.


      Material for Bandanvar:

      • Card stock paper
      • Glitter paper
      • Glue
      • Long ribbon
      • Pattern scissors¬†

      Nukta inspired this one. She showed me a picture of her pretty toran and I copied her design, tweaking it a bit.    

      You can also make a pretty traditional bandanvar with paper marigolds. Click here for pictures and instructions.

      Material for Diyas:

      • Crayola white clay
      • Assorted colorful beads
      • Paint

      I only made a fancy outer shell for real lights. Molded it in shape and pressed small beads in the clay. We are waiting for it to dry to paint it but I feel it is looking good as it is also. You can decorate with anything… Make patterns, use sea shells, pebbles… Anything at all.

      Material for Crepe paper flowers:

      • Crepe paper
      • Pipe cleaner

      The crepe paper flowers are very easy to make and look like beautiful marigolds. You can use paper of only one color or 2 colors. Watch the video tutorial here.

      You might also want to learn another way to make paper marigolds here We have also made a toran using the marigolds. See the picture and details here.

      For more Diwali decorations you should check out our easy peasy Diwali Wreath.

      Hope you like these and enjoy making them as much as we did.

      Happy Diwali everyone. May the festival of lights illuminate all aspects of your life and brings you countless joys.


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      Star Shaped Meethi Mathhris (Sweet Whole Wheat Fritters)

      Today was Ahoi Ashtami – the day I fast for my 2 munchkins and pray for their good health and well being. As a tradition we make meethi matthris and suji halwa on Ahoi for the evening pooja.

      As I was making mathris, VMJ came in the kitchen curious to know and see what’s going on. Seeing how she wouldn’t let me alone I decided to involve her in mathri making too. My dough was ready, so I rolled it and asked VMJ to cut it in shapes using a cookie cutter. She was more than happy and chose star shape. She cut and I fried and we both had a good time.

      The matthris did come out very nice and crispy. Because VMJ was involved in the making and because she loves stars she happily snacked away on the star fritters. And they are healthy too as I used whole wheat flour, ghee, sesame seeds and very little sugar. 


      I used the following recipe from Nisha Madhulika:


      1 1/2 cups Whole wheat flour 

      1/4 cups Suji (semolina)

      1/4 cups Ghee (clarified butter)

      1/4 cups Sugar 

      2 tbsp Sesame seeds 

      1/4 cups Water 

      Ghee/ oil for frying (I used vegetable oil)


      First dissolve sugar in water if you are using granulated sugar. 

      Mix all ingredients except for water and mix well. Then slowly add sweetened water and make a firm dough. Now cover and leave it for about 15 min.

      After 15 min heat the oil on medium. Make small balls from the dough and roll into matthris. If you want you can also cut them in various shapes using cookie cutters. Fry on medium until golden brown. Take them out on a tissue paper to absorb the excess oil. Let them cool and enjoy!!

      These mathris should be stored in an air tight container and stay good for about 2 months. 

      You can find the video here.

      Happy Ahoi Ashtami everyone. May God bless good health and happiness to all the children.


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      Why I celebrate Karvachauth?

      One of my fondest memories as a child is to see my mother get dressed for Karvachauth. She rarely wears a sari and Karvachauth was one day when even if she didn’t want to I begged and pleaded for her to wear one. I remember going to a neighbor’s house to see other aunties all decked up and then watching the pooja. Even as a child I loved the karwa song. In the evening my grandmother used to share the goodies and money my mom gave her as gift  with me. The festival was celebrated simply and there wasn’t much hoopla around fasting and gift giving as it is these days.

      As I grew older I looked forward to fasting myself when I got married. So when post marriage I was told that my in laws side doesn’t celebrate Karvachauth I was a tad disappointed but decided to still keep it because not fasting on Karvachauth somehow felt wrong. 

      My celebrating this day and fasting is not a compulsion, not a tradition I am expected to follow and certainly not an image I have to live by. I fast as a way to thank God for giving me a husband who loves and respects me, who may have his flaws but has a heart of gold. As much as I fight with him, I do know he’s the best thing that happened to me and in the very cheesy Karvachauth style I want him as my husband for all 7 births or more. 

      Since I fast mainly for myself I maintain the flexibility and trade early morning sargi for a couple extra hours of sleep. I wear a sari or a suit as I find convenient. I cook an elaborate meal or go out for dinner depending on my mood. I have kept very lenient fasts during both my pregnancies and I sure will do it again if I feel myself physically incapable of staying thirsty or hungry all day. If we don’t have any sweets at home I break the fast with chocolates. Since I define the way I celebrate this festival I enjoy it more. 

      I do get mehandi, dress up, do pooja and wait for the moon. It feels nice to celebrate my husband and our marriage in a traditional way. Though we don’t do the channi thing, it still makes me warm and fuzzy to do the aarti and break the fast after moonrise. 

      I don’t expect a gift, my husband is oblivious to this newer custom and I never saw this during my childhood so it has never been part of the celebration for me. If he gets something it makes me happy, if he doesn’t I’m still happy because it’s Karvachauth ūüôā 

      Wish you all a very Happy Karvachauth. May everyone finds happiness and peace in their married lives and may all husbands and wives have a happy and healthy life. 

      Dress up, glam up and sing a happy song. Don’t follow the rituals if you don’t feel they belong. 

      Haha… Sorry for the silly rhyme.


      “Veero Kudiye Karwada,

      Sarv Suhagan Karwada,

      Ae Katti Na Ateri Na,

      Kumbh Chrakhra Feri Na,

      Aar Pair Payi Na,

      Sui Ch Dhaga Payi Na,

      Ruthda Manayi Na,

      Suthda Jagayi Na,

      Behen Pyari Veera,

      Chan Chade Te Pani Peena,

      Ve Veero Kudiye Karwada,

      Ve Sarv Suhagan Karwada …….”

      Happy fasting,